lundi 27 septembre 2010

Ok....

Lire l'article si dessus........    Honnêtement, je sais pas trop comment formuler mes pensées......   Mais au delà de la nouvelle... pour le moins, disons singulière....y a des infos qui frappent dans l'article!

*Seule Vero a wichita doit trouver ce genre de formation pour les femmes.... normal quoi! ;-)

Moments forts:

"A new university in Ajman promises to make better mothers out of women by educating them about topics ranging from their rights to pedicures."
"The programme is important in the UAE because there are serious problems in society, he said, including householders’ dependency on maids to run the family, and a high divorce rate.

According to studies cited by Dr al Ani, 80 per cent of parents’ tasks and responsibilities for children in Gulf families are taken care of by maids.

“On average, there is a minimum of two maids per household in the UAE. This dependency is dangerous, and we need to raise awareness among women on such matters by preparing and educating them,” said Dr al Ani. “By preparing women with the right tools to create a healthy family, we will overcome such problems.”:"


University offers degree in mothering

Wafa Issa
  • Last Updated: September 25. 2010 11:40PM UAE / September 25. 2010 7:40PM GMT

"Motherhood is a profession which needs to be studied," says Dr Nizar Al Ani. Jeffrey E Biteng / The National


A new university in Ajman promises to make better mothers out of women by educating them about topics ranging from their rights to pedicures.

The University College for Mothering and Family Science, according to its founders, is the first university in the world to offer a bachelor’s degree in the “mothering profession”.

Dr Nizar al Ani, the director of the university, said the four-year programme aims to prepare women to be good mothers through academic and vocational training.

“Motherhood is a profession which needs to be studied,” he said. “This is specifically important in our society because of the high speed of change: nowadays, how to be a good mother is not merely passed from mother to daughter.”

The programme is important in the UAE because there are serious problems in society, he said, including householders’ dependency on maids to run the family, and a high divorce rate.

According to studies cited by Dr al Ani, 80 per cent of parents’ tasks and responsibilities for children in Gulf families are taken care of by maids.

“On average, there is a minimum of two maids per household in the UAE. This dependency is dangerous, and we need to raise awareness among women on such matters by preparing and educating them,” said Dr al Ani. “By preparing women with the right tools to create a healthy family, we will overcome such problems.”

The course programme, which is accredited by the Ministry of Higher Education, is divided into three sections. The first deals with women’s civic and legal rights, including her Islamic rights as a woman and mother. The second teaches her how to run a household with courses in cooking, home decoration, personal fitness and grooming. The third focuses on raising children. The university itself is a private venture launched by 11 investors. The Ajman government provided the building in which it is situated.

To date, 25 women have enrolled in the programme, which is scheduled to begin on October 3, but management hopes to sign up 120 students this year.

Any woman with a secondary school degree is eligible and it is open to all nationalities, although Dr al Ani said the majority of those who enrolled to date are Emirati.

“We have a mother and daughter among our students: the mother is 42 and her daughter has just finished secondary school, and they both want to pursue a degree with us,” said Dr al Ani.

The annual fee is Dh25,000, but the first batch will be given a 20 per cent discount.
Graduates will be able to work in family court or other professions that might require

“Family Science” expertise, according to Dr al Ani. “If a woman can find a balance between her family and job, she might be able to work. But her priority should be the family,” he said.

Public reaction has been favourable. Amira Salem, 30, an Emirati government employee and mother of three, said she would be interested in enrolling, since it would provide her with the right knowledge to run her family affairs.

Nasser al Madhani, a 31-year-old Emirati flight engineer, said he is a big advocate of educating women on issues related to motherhood. However, he felt a full degree on the  issue was excessive. “To educate oneself about such issues is important,” he said. “But it can be done through seminars and individual reading.”

The reaction from the education sector was more reserved. Dr Rima Sabban, assistant professor of sociology at Zayed University, said she felt the project had more commercial objectives than educational ones. “If I were to provide a critical review of this initiative, I’d say it confines the role of the woman to purely taking care of the house and bringing up children,” she said. “It also makes the family and its failure her sole responsibility.

“We do not need colleges teaching women how to apply makeup. Family is a joint institution and responsibility for it lies with both men and women. If we want to send the right message, we need create a family science discourse that is directed at both the husband and the wife.”

Dr May al Dabbagh, director of the Gender and Public Police Programme at Dubai School of Government said: “It is an excellent first step to introduce programmes that educate women about their rights.”

“However, education in the Gulf is ever-evolving, and there is a difference between what is said and what gets done. Only time will tell if this programme increases awareness of gender equality or reiterates traditional roles.”

http://www.thenational.ae/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20100926/NATIONAL/100929707/1010

jeudi 23 septembre 2010

Tu viens faire un tour de Ferrari Baby!?

Ce qu'il a fière allure!


 

Puisque nous sommes des vrais Dubaistes!!  Rien de moins pour fiston qu'une Ferrari!



 

 
Voici La cicatrice, que Maman trouve bien grosse pour un si jolie petit visage...


Mais comme le disent mes sisters from Turquie et l'Iran:
"Mashallah*, il est beau!"

*Il est difficile d'expliquer ce que veut dire ce mot puisqu'il est utilisé dans plusieurs contexte.  Mais je peux le comparer a des expression de chez nous comme:  -dieux merci, -je touche du bois....

Voici ici quelques définitions qui traduisent bien l'utilisation de cette expression arabe, mais grandement utilisé chez les Iraniens (avec une prononciation différente) et chez les Turcs.










samedi 18 septembre 2010

à la grande ecole!

Debout a 6 am pour cette première semaine d'école!

Fidèle a lui même, des la deuxième journée, eli a dansé et a invité tous ses nouveaux amis à la maison !!

Il faut dire qu'il avait très hâte! Depuis juin, il me dit vouloir prendre le bus jaune no.5 (aucune idée d'où ca vient puisque c'est moi qui fait le transport!).

La journée de l'achat de ses uniformes, il m'a dit (en anglais): "Maman, tu dois me laisser un peu, je vais voir mes amis. Tu vendras me chercher plus tard avec liam"

Pendant ce temps, liam a commencé la nursery touteeeee la journée!! Dans l'espoir de le "bruler" un peu!!! Mais noonnnnnnnnnnnn....... Il est le modèle de base qui venait avec "recharge automatique". C'est toujours mieux ca qu'un loup malade!








Pour cette première journée, tenu d'éducation physique. Sinon, chemise, short avec plie, chaussures noires et bas bleus.


Meme papa a pris 2 jours de congés pour cette semaine bien spéciale!







Quartier de l'école

mardi 14 septembre 2010

Patrick, Ajman et Oman...



Patrick est en ville!!!!!

Un très très court séjour, mais très très apprécié!!

On aurait par contre bien aimé que la petite famille suive!! Mais ce n'est que partie remise!


La lune de Eid, avec l'étoile (typique de la fête qui suit le Ramadan)

Pat, notre nouvelle nanny!!

En route pour explorer quelques Émirats et même un nouveau pays!



Centre ville de Ajman (un des 7 émirats)

Je me rend compte que j'ai oublié ma petite veste!!! et que je suis en camisole spaghetti pas vraiment appropriée pour aller dans des endroits assez... très traditionnels!!

Donc, les hommes on arrêté m'acheter un voile pour me cacher les épaules et le poitrail

infos Ajman:http://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ajman


De plus, nous prenons conscience que nous traversons 2 fois Oman, pays voisin, et nous n'avons pas nos passeports.......... vraiment vraiment intelligent....... nous sommes au moyen orient..... douanier peu sympathique avec mitraillette..... dans le milieu du désert.......

Mais bon, ca bien été!




Oman



Dans ce climat aride (mais vraiment aride!!!!!) plein de petits oasis naturels

Réservoir d'Hatta Dam à Oman

Magnifique!


piscines naturelles, Hatta pools, (oui oui, on peu se baigner! On peu sauter, c'est profond)

Bon, l'affaire dans cette histoire c'est que: rendu là, il n'y a que des locaux qui se baignent. Un monsieur tente de communiquer avec nous en arabe et insiste pour nous parler. En arrivant, un vielle Lexus avec un coran sur le pare-brise...

Le monsieur nous fait comprendre que les piscines naturelles sont en bas et tente de nous faire comprendre qu'il est préférable de trainer notre cellulaire et notre argent pour s'y rende.......

Il fait 48 celcius..... les roches brulent les pieds!! Bizarre de climat, je reste près de la voiture...

Finalement, on comprend que le monsieur fait honneur à la réputation des Omanais et qu'il voulait seulement nous aider!!!


Disons que le contact avec les locaux d'ici est plus difficile et moins chaleureux!!!

Nous devons retourner à Oman!!!!






Je vous l'ai tu dis que le climat est aride?